The "Tea" Session

The 1st Tea

Grand-Ma & Pa drink their 1st ever grand children wedding tea. No doubt grand-ma smile till her teeth almost throw out...

So Cute...Yet Adorable

Preview of my mother & father in law...giving them their most anticipate serve tea session which make them wait their eldest beloved daugther Fionce to be married out...at last(haha...ha) no wonder the slavour dripping out ...cant help it even with napkin was provided

Fionce Auntie + Uncle's...Sisters....

Tea as usually have to be serve our relatives as a common traditional means letting them know that I'm(Chris) part of the family as well as being serve to drink tea by my sister-in-law...haih now we being an uncle and auntie already = (

"Tong Yuen" Session
Suprisingly we're serve to drink "Tong Yuen" as it means after we ate those...we will be together hapilly ever after..hmm interesting at first.




Family At Stands At One

Here we are. The Chris & Fionce Family with my new father and mothers and sister as well

Preparing To Leave...

Father brings out the red umbrella to shield fionce to the car.

Catching The Public Eyes

As we're about to leave fionce house...we show our face for the last time before we leave.

Opening The Door

As we leave our parents open the wedding car door to let us in by wishing us a pleasant journey back to her new home.

Moments

Of

Knocking The Door Session

Moments Of Marriage

In chinese culture comes the knocking the door concept where the sister of the days will hold back the door from being being open and need me to give a 999,999.99 ang pow money to open the door which is their main objective else ask me question & conffession.

Negotiations Supports

Beside me being there, my brothers was up there supporting and negotiating with me to make the moment become more thrill where they ask me to sing song where my brothers ask wat song then wei chee said "Take Of Your Clothes" by Alex Too which make the crowd laugh and Ken put into lyrics..Fionce in the house...CL in the house modify from Jolin - "Today You Married To Me"

Taking Their Chances.....

As the space was small there, my brothers was force to stress in to get in there you can see Jiat up there saying a word.

Taking Turns

Even the talkative Jason(the best man) was not that talkative that day, wonder why?

Saying The 3 Words...

There was 3 things i need to do before i go in...sing a song which is sung Leon - "Perhaps...If Not...But" then saying the 3 words which took me a while to say it coz the want the actual 3 words their looking for and the ang pow.

Move In

After open the door. I saw Fionce sitting right in the middle of the room and i was so happy seeing her. Finally got to c her after days of waiting. She smiles...i smiles..everyone smiles...after that i ask my brothers to move in to the room


Passing The Flowers

I was instruct to hang over the flowers to her and dunno y i look very ugly in this photo..hmm?

Here Come The Rings

After that we were told to exchange rings so take this opportunity taking a good pose for photo snapping.

The Reality

This shot was taken when i told Fionce that you are my wife now...you cannot runaway from me already...that why we look so...haha

Saying Hi

Before we walk down the stairs...we took picture as husband and wife for the 1st time of the day

Walk Her Down The Stairs

As her wedding gown was long...got to take care of her steps to avoid he fell anyway i was more worried then her...c her in the pic...jus know how to smile with seeing the steps...lucky got me as your husband to look out for you...

So In Love

I dunno wat actually happen during the time above but i remember that moemnt that we felt that we were so in love till we hug each other tight tight.

Praying

Before we go on to the tea session, we have to pray to the god to let them know our wedding news and prayers for good bleassing for both of us...

See How Happy We Are

Moment recall...smiles everywhere...

Pictures To Cherish

Funny looks that keep us dreaming all the times

Our Picture With My Lovely Sis

She is the only one that always concern about Fionce beside me. Stay tuned for the Tea session post this 2 days...

Our 1st Month Of Anniversay

So fast as we have reach our 1st milestone which is our 1 month wedding anniversary for being husband and wife. So fast as time pass by... where it's just like a dream on that day whereas we cant go back there to visit the moment...how good we have a time machine to recall back that moment but anyway that day...we will never forget in our life coz that day belong to us....a day that fionce give her whole life to chris to take care forever...a day that both of us officially announce to the whole world that we are husband and wife.

(p/s : Further confession to make after a month of marriage will be post soon as we were unable to update you guys today)

My Arrival

@

Fionce Residence

And

When Mouse Meets Cat...

Driving In

I left my place approxomately 10am and reach there around 1045am. It was a longest trip to her house ever before in my life. Feeling back then was...nervous yet exiciting..the day i finally get to be the one that very kids dreams of during their childhood days which is becoming the groom and picking up the bride one day...it my turn now. At that time there was some delay during the journey...we arrive on time.Thanx for all my brothers who manage to come along kick the door (accompany me in to married my lovely wife fionce). So brother turn to show wat u got...

The Pig Delivery

Just before fionce cousin open my door to greet me in...my two long time brothers...wan soon and wei chai help me to deliver in the pig into fionce residence which is one the chinese tradition that is a must do...for certain reason that i also dunno..haha.

Say Chezzzz.....

I was sitting in the car for alomost 10 minutes after i reach there. At that time camera flashes were flying here and there so there is the picture taken while waiting to be greeted in.

Brothers Focusing

While waiting in the car, they were also focusing my steps taken especially jiat (the one nearest) to the picture who will be having his wedding on december so gotto learn a bit...sorry gals he aren't avaolable anymore but wait there are still 2 bachelor in Alan (camera man) & Jason who stand in between them...anyone interested can check out wit me ya?

Dropping Into the Residence

After minutes of waiting....finally i got in. Before that fionce cousin brother got to greet me some welcome speach before he can open the door to welcome in. After doing so, i give him an ang pow and we took this picture above....

The Best Man

This is my best man Jason (available) who i choose for my wedding but actually all my brothers who attended my wedding all throughout the day was my best buddies of all...thanx.

The Brother (Mouse) Vs Sister (Cat)

Session Begin

There was four thing that they need to drink which include sweet, sour, bitter and spicy which represent that in a relationship there is this 4 things that would occur and if a couple can get through it...it means enternity love for them. First...the spicy taiwanese hot dog which they manage to get thru with some water after it.

First Warrior

Ken was the first one who attempt to eat the taiwanese spicy hotdog with jason lookin onto so enentually ken will be remember to be my first warrior for his braveness and jokes that he makes around at that did thrill the crowds...

How Can I Miss It?

I took a bite on it though my stomach was not feeling well at that morning but lucky my brothers manage to hold the wind coming towards me...

Jiat Caught In Action

Soon after that they were in action again...this time they need to drink the bitter and sour session where Jiat is looking to for a replacement drinker...

Morning Cheers....Yam Seng.....
Cheers not only happen at nite but also can happen in the morning. This is wat happen that there and it was fun...no beer or liquor but a mixture of orange and mango skin for the final stage which is the sweet taste as it feel kind weird but nice to taste as jason take the lead. So yammmmmm....seng!

Clapping The Mood

As the brothers facing wave by wave being send by the sisters...they manage to get thru it and the sisters giving some encouragement for their effort.

Video Catch

Supposingly ho weng(my brother) should be in the group but he did the video job so was excluded..dam smart.

Stage 2 : Collection Of Items

After completing the sweet + sour + bitter & spicy stage comes the Collection Of Items period where they need to collect (1st) RM 2.00 note (which is not available in the market anymore) + (2nd) Lady Type Silk Stokin and (3rd) squarish design stokin...thanx for wei chai for the RM 2 note, my sis kar yee for the silk stokin (which is the hardest to find..lucky me) and yen hou for the last item. Thanx.

Silk Stokin Found
Lucky me...my sis was the only 1 there wearing the silk stokin which hardly seen to be wear by any modern lady. Here my two cousin mun yee & mei yee taking it out...

The Provisional Greeting

After clearing the 2nd stage, i start to walk in the house and being greet by my father & mother in law before i go to knock fionce door, a sound of respect as i'm going to married their lovely daugther. So the next post will be my knocking the bridal door. Stay Tuned.

* Make-Up Of My Life *

- The Early Hours -

* Of The Wedding Day *

The Wedding Love Story Starts Here...

This is it! The morning has come in the early hours in morning of 8th October 2006...the day i was slept for few hours after goin through the chinese tradition preparation to comb the hair 3 times (tradition of letting you know that your an adult already & giving all the best of luck for your future...will explain this after we post all the weddding photo) and the day that i will be married to Chris Lam forever...

The Make Up Session With Debbie

I wake up around 630am to do the morning refreshing as Debbie (My Make-Up Artist) arrive at my place around 7am as it took around 2 hours plus to get my make-up done for the day as Chris will be at my place after 10 to knock my door bell so gotto to prepare that early...poor me..and also arrive at the scene was my photograher Kevin who arrive at the same time with debbie where he start taking picture of me in the make up session that early on throughout the whole wedding day.

Sitting Tight & Enjoy

It's feel i'm the Princess for the day...no need to make-up by myself but people make-up for me...it's feel so great. Sure la got to pay so much to have this kind of service...so being a Princess have a price to pay....kelian chris hor...have to food the bill...anyway i was sitting tight there enjoying the make up session for 2 hour plus...not easy job

Experience That Can't Be Said It All

It was so different than ever before as this is the first and last time i'll have such an experience of a lifetime...a day i'll be prettiest of all...a day that i would leave my family and joining up chris family...a day i'll be the one that people's talk about...a day that people would like to see me dressing up the bridal suite...sorry chris people only see the bride not the groom for the wedding day...hehe...well an experience to be cherish forever...

Tradition Starts Here

Chris was suprise after seeing this picture...got such a thing. I so dunno y but this is one of the hokkien chinese rules that my father need to feed me eat the last time before i get married becoz after this he cant feed me anymore coz chris need to start feeding me...haha

Finishing Touches

After finish the make-up, i dress up and then debbie did my hair design and putting the finishing touches of her work by putting the crown on my head and checking out those small little details...

Wearing The Veil

Time have come for my parent to help me to put on the veil for me

Waiting In The Room

After i've finishing make-up session till wearing the veil...apart from taking picture inside the room with my family, relative & friends...i was sitting there enjoying the moment but actually was chatting with my friends and i only sit down the chair when chris is about to come up to knock my room. Moments before chris came knocking...definetely was curious how my hubby chris doing out there and the picture above is one of the moment that kevin took before chris enter my room...so let the next chapter begin...