"The Moment"
Of
"Joy And Hapinness"
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* The Pair Of Forever Rings *
This pair of ring is the ring that we used to exhange hand during the ceremony which is different from the picture of the ring being wear by us from the last post so chris name it a pair of forever ring coz this is the actual one being witness by all of them at that day...so let the pair of forever rings lead us hapiness all the way....
* Promises To Be Make Forever *
This is the moment of truth! We were ask to stand up and put up our right hand and swear all the terms and condition in marriage which I and Fionce hardly could hear what she said (the women incharge of the ceremony) anyway we tried to listen as much as possible and keep on saying yes...yes...yes... to agree on those terms and conditions...and those promise is not make on a day but are make forever...
* Chris Signing The Wedding Document * At that times it like signing a multi million contract where everyone was silient in the hall making it as formal than ever before. At first i took out my Mont Blanc pen out to sign but i was decline to do so coz they need a water ink pen so have to used their one...anyway i need to sign 3 copies each..two copies (Cerfiticate Of Marriage) is for us to keep another is for the government office.
* Fionce Signing The Wedding Document *
I was so serious that that i dont treat it as a joke the signature pen me my life to the man CChris) who i spend my rest of my life with...you better treat me good or else my mom will settle with you straight...hehe...you cant fly away from my 5 finger...hehe...anyway i love you my hubby Chris!!
* Exchanging Ring Session *
Before we did exchange rings...we been ask..."Do you (Lam Ho Kwong aka Chris) willing to take Yeow Ching Huey aka Fionce as your wife?... i said yes (Should be i do but all is about yes yes yes..suddenly forgotten to say i do..hehe) anyway till Fionce turn to answer the question in the reverse part...after Fionce saying i do...we're ask to exchange ring which we did it sincerely but a bit messy wearing the ring we are abit confuse wearing in which hand due to the actual scene there...but we go through it smoothly till the end.
Chris conffesion : At that time i was worrried that Fionce will not say i do or yes coz this few weeks o so...we were not in a good state of happiness due to some heated arguement and differences but i told my wife a day or 2 before over register day is that...this is a rough road that we need to go through together hand by hand before the actual wedding and when it come after that..all the smokes are clear and it really did!)
Fionce Confession : At that time i was so upset with chris coz he vlame on me for not reminding him to bring the flowers on that day. I wasn't blaming him...i just hope that he say sorry to me that i'll forgive him...who know he didnt say it!bloody hell him.....
Fionce Confession on The Bad Times : Few day till weeks i was not happy with the things that have happen directly to me by the other party. Chris were protecting me all the time but jus that i cant get over myself. It felt so badly blame on the cost but chris was convincing me all the time that. In between...we have feel heated arguement that really feel like fighting in the ring with him coz at that time i have some pre-wedding fear symptom which make my mood becoming unstable. Few days before the registeration date, chris came up to look for me at my place and chris said "This is a rough road that we need to go through together hand by hand before the actual wedding and when it come after that..all the smokes are clear". After he said so, i felt much more better bcoz of this incident, it make our relationship stronger than ever.
Fionce Conffesion On The Yes Or No Situation : At first i was so confuse that whether did i choose the right man to be my future husband. I was strugling to make a decision until at a point i think that as long as chris unerstands me...he will always protect me in the right way coz i believe he is the man that i could liase my rest with so i have no doubt saying...Yes (I DO)
* You May Kiss As Husband & Wife *
It's Official!Kissing my lovely wife Fionce say it all. It's like....you may kiss the bride...muacks...the feeling is like jumping around saying yahoo.........my bachelor day are over..i'm a married man now but wait...i'm not an uncle just yet...wait till i think myself is an uncle then only you guys can declare myself as uncle Chris!It's just feel so sweet and i just wan to tell Fionce that I Love You...
* Chris Family Members *
A Family potrait taken in malay style version in the hall but it is different from others and it seems being a king and a queen sitting down the middle anyway this is my Lam family. There is only 1 Lam family for me..my supermom...my conservative yet a leader father figure...me the groom of the year...my gorgeous yet understanding wife(Fionce)...my best mate brother and last but not least my cute little sister. With you all with me...we will bring all the hapiness all around.
Chris Confession : Father...we may had difference due to over different generation but all the things you do for me...i'll really appreciated it and thank for giving it everything that what you can give to me. Mother...i know you have been taking care of us since the day that were born and thanks for the trouble that i gave to you...you have been in for me all the time..and i want to thank you for taking care of me everything and without you..my world will turn upside down. Thank you Father Mother. To my brother...thank for being my best mate around and outside there isn't much close brother around so no matter what happen we have to stay as brothers ok?You dont drink too much...save money to do better thing and think for your future ok? My dearest sister...you may not able to express out your feeling to me but i know im your best brother...i'll try to sayng you as much as possible ok?love you....all
Fionce Conffesion : Thank you father mother for accepting me to the LAM family members. For my brother-in-law & sister-in-law...welcome me on board ya...Cheers!
* Fionce Family Members *
This is my second family which i have a long long way fulfilling being the best son-in-law but least for the time being...hehe...let me introduce...my young looking father-in-law...my pretty mother-in-law...the smart Ching Li (1st Sis)...the fast learner Ching Ching (2nd Sis)...the adorable Ching Wen (3rd Sis) & the imitation of Fionce...Ching Yen(4th Sis). With their support and trust...me and Fionce will be a lovely couple of all time..heheChris Confession : I would like to thank Fionce hardworking father to bringing up such a nice lady for me to have & Fionce "Mother of All" for grooming Fionce to be a lady that i believe can take care my family perfectly. Thanks Father & Mother for your trust in me and handling your beloved daughter Fionce to me.
Fionce Confession : Thank you father mother for giving your guidiance to me since i'm a baby till now...Thank you mom for taking good care of me all this while and thank you dad for being so understanble father and stand by my side during my awful period. To all my sister...thanks for your tolerance and forgiveness to your big sister Fionce. Without you all...my life wouldn't be so colour then having my beloved sister on board.
* Chris Beloved Aunt Lam & Uncle Ho *
This is my Aunt Lam and Uncle Ho which is the only relative that manage to witness our occassion that day so would like to used this opportunity to thank my aunt & uncle coming over to share our joy. Actually...almost for the whole wedding preparation it being supervise by my pretty aunt (beside my mom & dad) from the hotel booking dinner till the PR work done in my wedding so thousands of thank you to my pretty aunt...without her my wedding occassion wouldn't become so successful. Cheers!!!
* Fionce Beloved Cousin Cely *
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*Best Friend Sharon *
My dearest cousin Cely...Firstly, I (Chris) would like to apologize for not saying thank you for your video photo presentation during my speech where i would like you to know that nite was very nervous on stage so didnt manage to catch you in my words...kinda forgive chris k?Thanks for your work..without ur video photo work...picture of our family and our baby times till we get together wouldnt be so well organized and with ur effort, it makes a perfect wedding gift for us to cherish it for a long long time. Thanks Cely!For Sharon, our Fionce best friend since she was in secondary school, thanks for coming for the day and being my best friend for over the years...thanx sharon.
* Chris Best Friends Jiat, Alan & Jason *Thanks Jiat + Alan & Jason for witnessing my wedding registeration @ putrajaya so without you guys being there, the enviroment wouldnt be more enjoyable by having you guys to share my joy together. Jiat, Thanx for ur unformal wear. Alan, thousand of thanks for being my camera man, and Jason, really didnt regret making you as my best man...really up to the task.
* Mr & Mrs Lam say....We Just Got Married! *
Thanx for all of you attending and witnessing the our moment of truth...being declare as husband and wife after months of waiting...for the wedding photo, my photograher kevin will pass to me this week so stay tuned for more picture and moment of Chris & Fionce wedding to share wit you all...as soon as possible so leave you guys here and thanx for the readers that tuned in to our www.loveandpromise.blogspot.com to share our moment.