The Best Moment (Probably In Life)

Fionce & Baby Janzen

The day has finally arrived...Fionce just gave birth to Lam Janzen @ 9.14am this morning of 7th Novemer 2008 guided by Dr.Tan Lay Seng (Doctor In Charge) In Gleneagles Hospital...where at a point we're about to break down in stress...ending up tears of happiness flowing thru the eyes once the baby cries.....sight of relieved after enduring the worst 15 minutes of our entired life.....let's recall back the moment before it had happen...

430am [Wake Up]

We woke up around 430am plus to take bath and prepared everything before we leave to gleneagles by 530am

6am [The Arrival]

We arrived at the emergency ward to register and guess what...we have no room to stay as all the room were not available (Below RM 599). After signing and putting all the necessary signature and down payment...we sat down at the waiting counter for fionce turn as the operation was @ 9am.

630am [Movie]

As nothing to do..we tum our attention watching a movie in star movie...dunno the name..but did help us to burn sometimes while waiting impatiently...

8am

The Fionce name appear in the air...suddenly the rush of blood flow thru our body anticipating the moment of truth...chris and fionce will have their very own child...we were ask to go to the daycare centre to get ready as we need to change to operation clothes..

815am

After changing..the nurse help fionce to clean up require area for operation purpose, cleaning up the stomach and check the baby heart beat.

840am

Fionce was push into the waiting area...awaits the doctor arrival...i was ask to sign up if i were to go in..signature on...then i was lead to change into the operation uniform as well....

850am

As walking towards the staff changing room...i saw my mom in law and fionce sis arriving...then i got change the clothes and pant as well of a pair of slippers (remember bring along your valuable stuff along..hilang(lost) no guarantee...)

8.58am

While waiting to be called to be the labour room...was so anxious as this was the 1st time experience for me..suddenly the nurse lead me to the back door of the changing room which lead towards the labour room.

9am to 915am

There was my wife laying in the labour bed as she was well in place to start...just needed me to be in place beside a chair situated beside fionce head...i was inform not to touch anything beside supporting my wife and holding on fionce hand...Fionce can't see anything and her lower body is being numb for the operation...

Though we decided to do cesarean...i can feel that fionce was very worry as she hold me very tight once the doctor start to do his magic...the nurse and doctors around was very friendly yet serious handling the situation...some focusing 100% on the operation, some taking care our needs and supports...

As the cut when in...the worst 15 minutes of our entired life...though i didn't focus too much on the cut...i always did a peep when i can as i was all the way cooling down fionce and has her relax..i guess it help as that time shows...how much she needed by her side. If u c it...you will say...walau eh(oh my god) the scissor, metal plate was everywhere inside her stomach..those who in my position will understand....

As the cut went deeper and water sucking out...it almost there to bring the baby out...a platform of metal was put inside so that the baby can be easily hand out...this is the most enduring part...as i cant take it anymore...i close my eyes...one hand holding fionce left and other holding the right...my Buddhist prayers was as fast that i can manage to say....

This so the most critical moment as this is the matter of live by both parties...my prayers getting stronger....and stronger....and stronger and finally the baby cries break the moment of madness.....

915am

Ahhhhhhh.....was the feeling of relieved as we look at each other...tears of happiness dropping and smiles that makes gods envy us.....i took a pep and saw our baby boy..he was just so perfect to us...the nurse went to clean his body up before wrapping with blanket for fionce to hold (picture above)

He was so chubby + cute + adorable baby boy...fionce manage to give him a kiss but i didn't coz i was being masked so better don't take out just yet...as it's still on going..so took picture of baby "Janzen" with her mother...in picture for the very 1st time...

920am plus...

Then "Janzen" was send to nursing as doctor continue to tidy up the cleaning and stitching...

940am

i was as to to get change when wait in the outside waiting hall....

What a day...fooohh.....though the 15 minutes is short but it's was like lifetime experience...that why i said "This Is The Best Moment" (Probably In Our Life) by the time Janzen cries broke into the air...we felt this is a gift from god to us a gift that dedicate our marriage life to make it to be true after all the 9 month experience that i and fionce encounter together hand by hand...which we learn to comprised each other needs and wants..we became stronger than ever...and now with baby "Janzen" on board (Brphhhhh............hehe) is just for us to make even better than ever...

I would like to used this opportunity to thank God & Our Ancestor for giving us this precious gift...blessing and protecting fionce and baby "Janzen" for unwanted harmful incident (Fionce almost get ran by a motor out from nowhere within Jusco ticket machine area in balakong & Fionce fell to the floor in office) during her pregnancy period...

Lastly...i would like to thank Fionce for giving us "Janzen" helping our "LAM" family to grow...and for her sacrifices and depress during her 9 month pregnancy...After witnessing today beautiful moment...now i know why the mother is the most important person from children point of view...I Love You..Lou Poh (Wife) !!! You're Simply The Best!